Year End
It's coming to the end of the year again...... 20 more days till the end of december.
Thoughts have been running through my mind nowadays..... things that i've done, shld have done, not done, to be done, thinking whether to do or not to............. i guess i'm still at the crossroad, looking like a deer caught in the headlights of an approaching car.
reflecting the things that i've done to land myself where i am now..... the BIG - IF!
things might have been different if i did these or that.... but i guess it's time to learn from past experiences and look forward to what can be done :)
Was reading justina's blog just now and i didn't even realised i wrote that...... i guess i just feel frustrated sometimes.... but i'm learning to speak my mind it's sometimes better this way 有时畏畏缩缩的反而不好for both parties.... Being direct at times is necessary and essential. i guess it's walking the fine line between being direct but not hurtful. there are times where u just have to be firm and not be soft-hearted.
Things to note to self
1) Be direct, forthright
2) taking things in stride, although things don't always go the way i want it but there must be something to learn from the experience
3) related to pt 2) 想做就敢敢做， that is not to say that i'll be implusive, the first step might be difficult but at least i took the first step rite :)
4) having dreams and goals, find it and work towards it..... *at present i know what i don't want the key is to find wat i want!!!! it's a start
5) work hard and play hard
6) be more organised and make plans
7) be more proactive, enuff of nuay-ing
8) kiv i believe there's more to come
people change, sometimes i feel that y shld i bother so much when the other party dosen't want to make the effort. I believe i've mention this many times before but i just can't have the i-can't-be-bothered attitude like some ppl..... someone has to make the effort rite, i guess i'm used to it or rather i'm stretching my own patience, training to have a high patience level :)
next year frens will be leaving for abroad, things do change very fast, how some of us are working, while others are still studying, marking our own paths........ looking forward to next yearcome what may
Thoughts have been running through my mind nowadays..... things that i've done, shld have done, not done, to be done, thinking whether to do or not to............. i guess i'm still at the crossroad, looking like a deer caught in the headlights of an approaching car.
reflecting the things that i've done to land myself where i am now..... the BIG - IF!
things might have been different if i did these or that.... but i guess it's time to learn from past experiences and look forward to what can be done :)
Was reading justina's blog just now and i didn't even realised i wrote that...... i guess i just feel frustrated sometimes.... but i'm learning to speak my mind it's sometimes better this way 有时畏畏缩缩的反而不好for both parties.... Being direct at times is necessary and essential. i guess it's walking the fine line between being direct but not hurtful. there are times where u just have to be firm and not be soft-hearted.
Things to note to self
1) Be direct, forthright
2) taking things in stride, although things don't always go the way i want it but there must be something to learn from the experience
3) related to pt 2) 想做就敢敢做， that is not to say that i'll be implusive, the first step might be difficult but at least i took the first step rite :)
4) having dreams and goals, find it and work towards it..... *at present i know what i don't want the key is to find wat i want!!!! it's a start
5) work hard and play hard
6) be more organised and make plans
7) be more proactive, enuff of nuay-ing
8) kiv i believe there's more to come
people change, sometimes i feel that y shld i bother so much when the other party dosen't want to make the effort. I believe i've mention this many times before but i just can't have the i-can't-be-bothered attitude like some ppl..... someone has to make the effort rite, i guess i'm used to it or rather i'm stretching my own patience, training to have a high patience level :)
next year frens will be leaving for abroad, things do change very fast, how some of us are working, while others are still studying, marking our own paths........ looking forward to next yearcome what may
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